mistakes: made any?

It's all about time and what is new one second, becomes old and forgotten the next second. We all have a journey to complete ahead in our life with uncountable milestones and numerous obstacles... out of the topic a bit, but this line reminds me of takeshi's castle :P damn i miss that show! anyway coming back on track, a journey on which we set upon to give our self a motive to live and define our ways. The morning everyday brings with it new surprises, a package of hopes and beliefs. I too wake up everyday thinking, what if today turns out to be that extra-ordinary day where i don't commit a single mistake and set ahead my footsteps for the rest of the day..but that never happens :P i have to make at least one mistake through out the day. But then flaws makes one awesome B)



Thinking of the past, there are huge blunders i have made and coming to think of it now, maybe I wasn't given a good set of choices or maybe i was too bad at the whole decision making process.

1. First mistake, I made few pathetic people my "so called friends". Oh yeah, they deserve the word pathetic and i would love to cross the line to define them with some of the most absurd adjectives in the dictionary but why waste time, energy and words :P all of them are precious :D Actually thanks to them that now i have such a great set of friends. What i learnt from this was that, do NOT trust one much unless you feel fully comfortable. Friends reminds me, how much i enjoyed that series so far, it's one of the most hilarious and fun show i have seen...any of you reading this who had not seen friends must see it ASAP..

2. Whoever said love is beautiful forgot its a joint account with something called  a "relationship" which has it's own terms and conditions and also some hidden issues. Wake up people, life is not a fairy tale and there is no one perfect for us. I have been in quite a few relationships and as per my personal experience, i would say it's a waste of time and emotions. Every time I decided not to let the seriousness factor get in between, it somehow did and i miserably failed. Soft hearts like me have to go through some tagged dialogues like "it was nothing great, move on!" or "oh! get over it, there are a lot of fish in the ocean." Saying is hell easy, come and do it bitches, you will feel it then. Lol! i can  actually do an entire thesis on relationships but too boring it would be. And so if you suck at the whole relationship stuff, how about trying something called "flirtationship", no term and conditions, not at all exclusive and you can have all the fish in the ocean. ;)

3. Ah! This mistake I am sure i have a lot of people with me :D Has there been times when you started with something with full enthusiasm and left it incomplete 'cause it was uninteresting and boring. I have done that a  millions of times and i am not proud of it at all. Quite regretful I would say. There comes times till date in my life where i go like "only if i had done that" :| Trust me it's a terrible feeling and something literally eats me up inside. So if possible, try completing the under construction work and start some men at work sites.





Spoke about mistakes enough eh, i know no one likes to hear about mistakes and regret about it. But this not any shitty piece of advice, its something where while reading you would find your own mistakes in mine and the rest who didn't can enjoy their ice-scream without a spill.

And when you tired of making mistakes, why not escape to a new place where no one cares and no one gives a damn about what you do. Where it's all about you and your dreams and how you chase it...

mumbai : the city of dreams!

Have an amazing summer, make it your own way, make some mistakes and rectify few of them. After its summer, a little controversial and interesting it has to be, otherwise the charm of summer gets lost  and you lose all the fun.





Go ahead make some new friends, do some new stuff, grab a beer and chill out \m/

cheers!

The drama, the gossip and the limelight..

Past five months have been the worst of my life so far. So much happened in so little time and the drama, yes that is more spicier than the ones running on television.... Here in my college I bet people never run out of topics to talk 'cause they get all the gossip they want to. Gossip reminds me, a very close of friend of mine who LOVES to gossip and for his this habit I call him gay :P Boys don't be surprised please. The favourite topic of discussion shifts from soccer and cricket to "what's the relationship status of that hot chick" and "what's the scene between the couple boss?" talks. And nothing surprising also and neither am I denying that we girls don't but we atleast accept the fact :P

 Recently in a regular conversation, some one mentioned how we all are no less than 90210...and later i thought about it and laughed and he was so damn right...No one likes being in the limelight for the bad, and no one likes to be stared at when walking around either but when you know what's the truth and how you are, walk with your head high plus ignorance is bliss. Not to forget more the people you know, more you will be talked about.




When the fire is ready to be lit, a lot of hands with the fuel come forward but none raise their hands to stop the fire. I don't  blame those individuals who love talking about people behind the back and gossip and bitch around about them because this place does not leave one with any option better than that. I am not saying that I don't gossip but yes i don't instigate a rumour nor do I give one a lift by confirming it. Some in this process do not realize that the other person might just lose all the respect he or she ever held around people. Whatever one might say, but i would always say do not just judge the book by it's cover, you never know what's the story inside. I know most of you who are reading this by now must have guessed the stories,situation and the characters. But then, me and all of us learnt a lesson and will never forget it. Whatever the circumstance is, some turn out to be the victim and some are guilty.

A mindset is something that doesn't take much time to change. If you were known for the good and now you are known for the bad then rectify your mistakes and make them realize that a few actions cannot change who you are and what will you always be. Obstacles a part of the game of life and all of them can be crossed with the help of some dedication and confidence. I have always been there for my friends and situations were such that i had to choose my friend over the right, but then i faced the storm with them and sailed with them on the rough sea knowing that it might take forever to witness the clear sky.

Every gossip and rumour fades away with time, and so does bad times of life. Ups and downs are an important ingredient in the recipe of "how to survive life"! So go ahead and live the world however you want to, because at the end of the day people who love you will be there to welcome you back with their open arms and walk with you the rest of the journey. And if that doesn't help  :p sometimes revenge is a dish best served cold for whatever disaster ever happened with you! ;) :P

cheers !